Being a parent is one of the toughest jobs a person can undertake and it does not matter how good we think we might be at being a parent there are times when we all need help and support.

As children grow into teenagers and young adults their behaviour and actions, along with those of parents at times, put relationships under strain. This sometimes results in the young person leaving or even being thrown out of the family home by their parents.

If, for whatever reason your son or daughter is leaving or has left home there are things you can do to help. The following are just some suggestions:

• Try to stay calm during stressful situations involving your son/daughter
• Try to find out the facts about what is going on
• Don’t just blame yourself
• Seek advice and support from specialist agencies if necessary (see the emergency contacts on this website)

If your son or daughter is preparing to leave home speak to them about what is involved in living independently including:

• Looking after themselves; hygiene, health, safety, comfort, nutrition
• Looking after their surroundings; tidying and cleaning up, keeping secure
• Look after their money; budgeting, saving, making wise choices
• Taking responsibility for themselves

Let them know that they can return home if necessary – “Keep the door open”

Maybe our Parents Supporting Parents Project can be of help (please make this a link to the following:

Parents Supporting Parents on South Tyneside

Are your kids driving you mad…?
Are you on the verge of chucking them out…?

Stop before you act!…

We might be able to help!

Parents Supporting Parents on South Tyneside aims to provide help and mutual support, in an informal and friendly atmosphere to people experiencing behaviour problems with their older children (15 to 25 Years of age). many parents feel unsupported, that they are the only ones experiencing difficulties and unsure of where to turn for help.

If you feel like this why not come and chat things over with parents who have been in a similar situation.

To find out more please contact South Tyneside Churches’ KEY Project

on 0191 428 3354.